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Stop looking under your seats. The only thing there is an m&m you dropped.
Sorry, but all you’re getting is a list of items that have made our first 9 months of parenting easier.
(Now that I lost about 90% of the people reading this post …)
It’s true that you really don’t need much (if anything) to take care of a baby.
However, Michael and I have appreciated several specific items over the past 9 months, as they’ve made it easier to take care of a baby. This post may be good timing, as it seems several friends & family are currently expecting babies.
In addition to love, diapers & a car seat, it’s nice to have a …
We wanted a video monitor that worked on our iPhones or iPad. There seem to be ways to do this without a specific baby monitor product (via webcams & your own network), but this was easier. It was debuted in the US in the early spring of 2012. We like it because it’s extremely convenient to keep an eye on her using our wireless network. Our phones are always with us, and the iPad gives a bigger picture than you’d find on a normal video monitor. We use the music function almost every night to lull her to sleep, which can be turned on or off with the iPad or iPhone. There’s also a nightlight, a speaker to talk to her, and the ability to take a picture (screenshot) of her. If we have a sitter at the house, we can also use our cell network to check in on her (15 min free per month). One major drawback is that it is dependent on your wireless network. So, if your wireless goes out, you lose the connection with your baby. However, our bedroom is so close to hers, we would still be able to hear her. This made the Top 10 because we use it so frequently (every night & every nap at home) and it’s worked extremely well. It definitely was a splurge, but I’m glad we got it.
Sneaking a peek at Evie through the Smart Baby Monitor:
It’s a clean-lined high chair, instead of a huge colorful, difficult-to-clean distraction in your dining room. We got it in black, and so it blends in with the rest of our dining room furniture. It really almost looks like just another chair. As Evie gets older, the seat & footrest can be adjusted to grow with her
. Yes, it is much more expensive than a Fisher-Price high chair, but it’s not just for babies. The thought behind the Tripp Trapp is to have the baby pulled up to the table to take part in family meals. We did buy a tray for it (aftermarket) because at this age, it’s helpful to have a lip on a tray to help pick food up & also contain the mess. This was again another splurge, but I don’t regret it at all!
Yes, our most favorite .. intangible.. product that allows us to buy other products. Amazon Prime is amazing, especially for two working parents. Oh, we’re out of diapers? CLICK. Two days later, diapers. Oh, that ear thermometer isn’t accurate enough? CLICK. Two days later, rectal thermometer. (Sorry, Evie.) Wipes, dish liquid, shampoo, mascara, nursing pads, diaper genie refills, anything & everything your heart desires … including all of the items on this Top 10 list. It’s $79/year, but combining my Prime membership with Amazon Mom & Subscribe & Save, I get 20% off diapers and wipes. For Pampers, that’s $0.20/diaper (size 4). Normally, that’s what you would pay on average at Target if you used coupons half of the time. … and, you don’t have to drive to Target and find 176 other items to buy other than diapers (that you obviously needed). So – I call that a WIN.
If I were to rank the Top 10, this may be #1. From the very beginning, Evelyn loved to be held close. When she was really little, I used a Moby wrap that I borrowed from a friend
. It was perfect for when she was tiny, and I could easily change the way I would wrap her around me.
Then, when she was 3 or 4 weeks old, we started using the Ergo as well. It was quicker to put on because you don’t have to deal with the yards of fabric of the Moby. Michael was more comfortable to use it too; it’s almost like a backpack. At first, we used the Ergo with the infant insert
, to make sure she was supported & snug while her legs were still in their “scrunchy” phase.
The Ergo was the key to surviving my maternity leave. Evie went through a phase around week 4 where she wanted to be held close always – especially when she slept. In order to not go insane (too much), I used the Ergo. I was able to get things done around the house while she slept.
We mostly use the Ergo now when we go to the store & take walks. It’s easy for her to look around, be apart of what we’re doing, and then have the freedom to take a nap. We mostly use the front carry (chest to chest), but you can also do a side carry or a back carry (we’ll most likely do this when she gets older and can be closer to our shoulders). The most useful time we’ve used the Ergo was when we’ve taken her on flights. We put her in the Ergo and then we still have both hands to work with. We’ve flown twice with her & used the stroller to carry the car seat & baggage, with her in the Ergo. Even with all of that, we have 4 free hands. It’s especially nice to have her in the Ergo when we’re boarding the plane, trying to maneuver down the aisle & find our seat. Even better, the Ergo keeps her close to us, so we never have to worry about people touching her.
I’ve only tried 4 carriers: a sling (not a ring sling), Baby Bjorn, and then the Moby & Ergo. The Ergo is by FAR my favorite because it’s so comfortable. The weight of the baby is transferred to your hips, not your shoulders, so that carrying even a heavy baby seems effortless. I’ve seen parents carrying their kids that appear to be 3, 4 or 5 years old.
We were very lucky and receive the Ergo & insert as a gift from Michael’s coworkers, but if we had purchased it, it would have been the most worthwhile purchase for Evie – besides the car seat and diapers, of course.
Here’s Evie, all snuggled in the Ergo + infant insert, about 6 weeks old, taking a nap during my maternity leave:
In the airport with Evie at 8 months:
This is the only stroller we have & we’ve never felt like we’ve needed another. To be honest, we don’t use the stroller nearly as much as I thought we would, because we use the Ergo instead. However, when we do use the stroller, we love the City Mini. It’s a lightweight stroller (only 17 lb) with a really big canopy, large wheels for handling bumps & extremely easy to collapse. You just grab the handle in the seat and it’s closed.
We thought about buying a jogging stroller before Evie was born, but then realized that jogging strollers are not recommended until about 6 months. So, we waited. Well, whenever one of us goes for a run, the other is usually home to watch Evie (or I run at lunch while she’s at daycare). Therefore, no need for an expensive jogging stroller.
We did buy the car seat adapter accessory. It was really useful in the first few months, but not since then. It was nice to keep her snug in the car seat and then just set it in the stroller, facing us. Without the adapter, we definitely could have put her in the stroller itself (the seat reclines fully), but we wouldn’t have been able to see her as well. Now that she’s older, it’s nice for her to look forward – and we can still see her well enough through the clear plastic windows in the canopy. I’d say the car seat adapter is nice, but not necessary. We also got the Mommy Hook
(thanks Biz! It’s perfect for shopping bags), belly bar
(nice for her to hold onto) and the buggy buddy organizer
for the stroller.
Ah yes. The savior of many a car trip. This little toy (we call it her “ipod.” Original, I’m sure) plays several different classical songs along while lighting up a few lights .There’s not much to say here; it’s pretty self-explanatory. When you’re in the car for a long trip, and your infant is screaming because she wants OUT … this will work and it will make your top 10 list as well. It gets even better when your baby learns how to press the button to make the next song play. A shout-out to Maureen for gifting this gem to us.
I must recognize the 2 items that have allowed me to work full time and still breastfeed Evie exclusively. I have had zero issues with my Medela Pump in Style Advanced (PISA). The tote is functional & discreet (although a couple of guys at work whose wives have pumped have commented, “they know what that’s for”). It gets the job done.
The PumpEase bandeau bra allows me to get the job done, and do my other job at the same time (in the locked privacy of the mother’s room). I would go insane from boredom if I had to sit in a chair with each hand holding a flange to my chest, just thinking about all of the awesome things I could be doing at the same time. The PumpEase is no-nonsense. It has simple slits for the flanges & hooks in the front. To be honest, you could probably make one, but that would require more time than clicking “buy” on Amazon. Becca gets credit for recommending this one.
I did consider getting the Medela Freestyle
pump, which is almost $100 more. The positives there were a cordless pump, so you could walk around at the same time, and a hands-free pumping system. However, I read some reviews that said the pumping strength wasn’t as great as the PISA. Furthermore, I didn’t need to pay the extra money in order to pace around the mother’s room and pump at the same time. The hands-free option didn’t mean anything once I found the PumpEase for $35.
So, yes – the pump & the bra together cost quite a bit of money. However, it’s much, much less than you would pay in formula (ignoring a few other non-monetary aspects of breastfeeding :)).
This is one of those things where you wonder WHY you didn’t think of it first. Really, all it is is a blanket with velcro at the ends to secure the baby in a tight swaddle. Sure, we bought a bunch of those aden + anais muslin swaddling blankets
, but even if you master the swaddling technique (which we did not, but we sure TRIED), the SwaddleMe is still going to hold better. I mean, it uses velcro
. You put the baby’s feet in the little pouch & then wrap the flaps across their body very tightly. We kept both of Evie’s arms in until she started rolling back to tummy (around 2.5 months); then we kept one arm out to prevent her from rolling and faceplanting. Once she got strong enough to break out of the SwaddleMe completely, we moved on to Halo Sleepsacks (and then quickly moved on to just using an aden + anais blanket to cover her up because they were lightweight & I didn’t see the purpose of the sleep sack once she was so mobile).
Here she is, all happy & cuddly:
and the SwaddleMe in full action, keeping Evie’s crazy flailing arms pinned to her side so she can peacefully dream of endless milk:
It seems most babies born around the same time as Evie have this same gym (in my dataset of … four). This was by far, Evie’s favorite toy from the beginning. Since birth, she was completely content to lie underneath the suspended animals, watch the dreamy lights & listen to the jungle music. There were times when I was driving in the car and would hear the songs of this gym in my head. The songs become one with you. Thankfully, they aren’t that annoying. I’ve definitely found myself humming the rainforest theme around the house.
Anyways, this is just a great product, and keeps Evie engaged even now. When she was younger, she’d babble at the animals, laugh at the monkey’s face & do tummy time on the mat while trying to reach for a crinkly leaf or catch a glimpse of herself in the mirror. Now, she likes to stand, each hand holding on to a curved bar, and then periodically smack the green speaker in the center while laughing. (She may just be easily entertained.)
I really liked (1) the washability of the mat (just easily detach from the 4 curved bars and wash/dry in the machine) and (2) the loops all around the bars & mat – it’s easy to attach toys with one hand anywhere you’d like (and not just the toys that came with it). Also, it’s easy to fold up & store out of the way.
Here’s Evie at 2 months old, loving her rainforest.
The lion sleeping in her jungle:
If I had to guess which product has had the most use since Evie has been born, it would be this one. We only use the waterfall sound, which sounds just like static. It’s simple & easy to pack when traveling. This, in addition to the box fan we keep on outside of her bedroom door (great idea, Mike & Sarah!), helps her to sleep even when we have guests over, when we’re clanking dishes in the kitchen or having dance parties. (Especially dance parties.)
So, that’s it.
That’s all you need to make the first 9 months of parenting a breeze. Well, it might be smart to throw in a LOT of coffee & a pretty sizable sense of humor, too.